Let’s Talk About It: Domestic Violence

Nobody likes to get hit. Why should you hit someone and not be expected to get hit back? Why are men deemed as abusers for defending themselves? Why don’t women be held accountable for their actions? Why is it acceptable if she hit him?

I’m no abuser but I’m just confused as why am I a bad human if I defend myself. By no means is this blog about abusing anyone but I’m tired of seeing these same situations. If we were to count all the times a woman has slapped their boyfriend then who really are the abusers in the relationships.

Why aren’t women held accountable for bullying men with the constant hitting with the same excuse as to she’s only a woman. Even saying that out of this context would be looked at as sexist. So why use that now? She’s just a woman when she hit you to make it seem like she’s weak. But when the shoe is on the other foot I’m a poor excuse for a human being.

This blog is merely a response to when the male figure is attacked physically and he defends himself. Just making that clear. As for when it’s the man beating on the woman, I think he deserves the time he gets. If anyone is in that position, I think you should get out. That’s not love. You don’t physically and verbally abuse someone if you love them. That’s all I have to write on this subject. Like, comment and subscribe to my mailing list. View my previous posts until my next post. Check out some of my poems while you’re at it. See you next time.

Poetry Reading Ep 5: Spouse

Another video. Trying to get better at recording. It’s still a working progress. But this piece was my opinion on domestic violence. I often feel like we ignore the abuse that a woman portrays because of the simple narrative that men are stronger. I feel there’s a deeper feeling of being physically attacked no matter the genders. I’m rambling but that’s the opinion I tried to portray. Like, comment, and subscribe to my youtube channel. View some of my previous post. Download my new Story Pinder if Interested.The Jimmy Kanter Chronicles: Pinder

Domestic (Poem)

Why is it funny when a woman beat on a man?

Why is it not talked about when a woman constantly slaps a man?

When he walks away

Like most people say

He is still attacked

When he hits back

Why is it then wrong to hit your spouse?

Because a woman is not as strong

Right that old saying that is constantly looked down upon in other cases

But in this case, it’s perfectly fine, right?

I thought it was a woman can do everything a man can do right?

So it’s different when it comes to an altercation

She’s weak when she hits me

Repeatedly

And I’m the aggressor when I hit her

When will this change

No one likes to be hit especially by their spouse

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